Over the last decade, the importance of sex and its relationship to overall health and wellbeing has become widely accepted.
The rise of the #MeToo and TimesUp movements as well as an increase in education surrounding LGBTQ+ relationships, female pleasure and sex work has led to more accepting, sex positive environments, particularly in the Western world.
For many people, sexual wellness has become not only about being free from sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and anything that affects one’s ability to have sex but is now also about having healthy relationships and being able to enjoy sexual activity.
The World Health Organization (WHO) defines sexual health as “a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. For sexual health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled.”
A public health issue
According to an article published in The Lancet in June 2021, the WHO’s definition establishes sexual health as an important public health issue but fails to consider that health is seldom – if ever – the main reason why people have sex. Sexual health, sexual wellbeing, sexual justice and sexual pleasure are all interlinked, and sexual wellbeing can be influenced by various factors, including emotions, relationships, physical and mental health, age, gender and sexual orientation.
The terms ‘sexual wellness’ and ‘sexual health’ shouldn’t be used interchangeably, according to Dr Janet Barter, president of the Faculty of Sexual and Reproductive Healthcare. “We tend to use ‘sexual health’ to refer to the absence of disease or problems with sex,” she explains.
“Sexual wellness would be more than that and also includes the enjoyment of sex (alone or with a partner), feeling safe and empowered and having the ability to discuss what an individual does and does not want to do, including the use of contraception and protection.”
“With the advent of the ‘wellness’ industry, this concept has been extended to all aspects of our mental and physical wellbeing,” says Dr Hana Patel, GP specialist in women’s health in Dulwich, South London, and mindset coach. “While WHO has offered its definition, it is personal to each of us as individuals, and we are all on a journey and have different experiences and preferences.”
Furthermore, sex can not only improve relationships, but research shows that regular pleasurable sex may decrease the risk of heart disease, lower blood pressure and improve the immune system. It may even improve sleep, act as a natural method of pain relief and help people’s mental health.
“A healthy sex life has been shown to improve physical and mental health in a number of ways,” says Dr Mark Lawton, consultant in sexual health and HIV and chair of the British Association of Sexual Health and HIV (BASHH) Media Group. “Sex itself releases the body’s happy hormones. Conversely, stigma around sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can have profound negative effects on mental health. Additionally poor self-esteem and body imagine, exacerbated by social media, can be detrimental.”